Why must you do that?
Why must you friend with someone with reason?
Why must you be kind to people when you need something?
Why can’t you be sincere?

It’s a bad thing not to be sincere in relationship. Whether love or friend relationship. It will hurt other person to know that you are not being sincere with them.

Why can’t you just accept the person the way they are? Why can’t you just be nice to everyone, every living thing in the world?